a.) Language; guidance on having sensitive discussions with families about poverty
Use of Language.
We must be aware that the term ‘poverty’ can cause huge shame, fear and stigma so it is essential that we consider and think carefully about the type of language we use when having these conversations. You need to prepare for the conversation and ensure that you consider the following:
- What you say – Restorative language
It is vital that you use restorative language as this helps to shift the focus away from blame and shame to root cause and repair. This tool will assist you to have a discussion with a family about how they feel about their household income, how their finances might be affecting them and then moving on to any action that can be taken to improve the situation. - How you say it – Framing and softening techniques
This approach states the intention of the discussion and sets up the conversation. You then need to identify the positive intention for the person so they can understand why it is useful to engage in the conversation. For example ‘If its ok with you I thought it would be useful for me to understand a bit about your financial situation so that I can see if there is any additional support that we can offer in this area.’ - What you don’t say and how you behave – Mirroring and body language
It is important to remember your body language has a big impact using mirroring techniques, good use eye contact, leaning in, being aware of location, being aware of personal space, being aware of your notepad and writing are all techniques which can aid engagement and help people feel more comfortable when having sensitive conversations. - Consider using metaphors, facts and research when discussing poverty
Research shows that using metaphors, relevant statistics and research in discussions can aid understanding and help reduce shame because it makes the discussion very factual. Some examples are ‘In the grip of poverty’, ‘Keeping your head above water’. Consider discussing how the economy locks people into poverty being on benefits, in low paid jobs, rising rental prices, the increasing cost of living, the way our economy works can trap people in a daily struggle to make ends meet. - Words and phrases we can use:
- “How does living with a low income impact you/your family?”
- “How do you manage your money?”
- “Can I talk to you about your finances?”
- “How do you manage/cope on the income you’ve got?”
- “Where do you normally go for financial support? Can I support you with accessing different services?”
- “Do you think you’re getting all the money you should/are entitled to?”
- “How are you coping with the change to universal credit? A lot of people are finding this difficult”
- “Have you ever had a welfare rights assessment?”
- “Do you do a weekly/monthly budget planner?”
- Would you like to look into free training courses/ find out about other employment opportunities
b.) Community practice: drawing on community support to reduce poverty
Knowledge and understanding of the local community they serve is vital for practitioners as drawing on community support enables families to form local connections. They are also far better placed to understand their communities and where they can get support. Just as important are those informal networks and trusted friends who they can turn to, many people who use support services will themselves go on to shape services and help others. The lived-in experience and ‘walking in someone else’s shoes’ perspective can often help practitioners to better support families. We know from research and listening to families that what they value is someone who has time for them and a listening ear. It’s the simple things that matter
Strengths and asset-based approaches ensure the focus is on what individuals and communities can bring to the table and how we can work together to find solutions. We don’t always have to have the answer and be the “expert”. These approaches are fundamental when supporting families in poverty as they draw on community values and strengths. As a Child Friendly City the core values of Leeds is to strengthen families and strengthen communities. In Leeds local communities have shown great resilience and strength in challenging times and pulled together. Some examples of this are volunteer led school uniform exchanges set up to ensure children in need have uniforms to go to school, or businesses offering free school meals to children in school holidays.
“No society has the money to buy, at market prices, what it takes to raise children, make a neighbourhood safe, care for the elderly, make democracy work or address systemic injustices….. The only way the world is going to address social problems is by enlisting the very people who are now classified as ‘clients’ and ‘consumers’ and converting them into co-workers, partners and rebuilders of the core economy”
Professor Edgar Cahn, US-based civil rights lawyer and inventor of Timebanks
c.) Advocacy; ensuring voices are heard
Children who live in poverty often are not included in conversations around their experiences. Adults are often apprehensive about talking to children about poverty, because they don’t want to say the wrong thing, or they think that children may be less aware of their parent’s financial circumstances. Children who live in poverty are very often aware that they live in poverty. They know about the stresses that their family is under, and they often try to protect their parents from financial worries, by not bringing information home about school trips, or by leaving food on their plate as they know it may be their parent’s only meal.
As practitioners working with families, it is important that we use the power and knowledge gained as part of our role to advocate for our families. We must listen to and work with both children and their guardians to better understand their experiences of poverty, only by doing this can we appropriately advocate on their behalf and work with them to challenge their current situation (Department of Health, (2018) ‘Anti-Poverty Framework for Social Work in Northern Ireland; A Summary’, (Belfast), pp.1-2).
Here are some ways we can work with our families to ensure that their voices are heard:
- Gain an understanding of practical help that families may need.
- Support families to complete applications for practical help and benefits.
- Advise about support such as food banks, deposit schemes.
- If you are not sure about support signpost families to relevant support services. Consider making the first phone call/complete the referral form with that family.
- Use your advocacy, resource brokering and systems negotiation skills. Challenge a landlord about making repairs, accompany families to benefits hearings, negotiate better repayment terms with a loans company, and write supporting letters for grants.
- Support people experiencing poverty to improve their self-esteem. Form respectful relationships with children and families which promote dignity, self-belief and high self-esteem. Raise the confidence of those you work with and encourage people to find their voice and challenge their situation.
- Challenge practice and policies which may unfairly oppress or discriminate against families living with low wages. Talk to your managers/supervisors about the experiences of families living with low income, and contribute to policy/decisions about families (Department of Health, (2018) ‘Anti-Poverty Framework for Social Work in Northern Ireland; A Summary’, (Belfast), pp.1-2).
If you believe that a family may be being denied any rights, discuss this with the family, and agree what you can do together to challenge this, for instance call the landlord about repairs (British Association of Social Workers, (2019), ‘The Anti-Poverty Practice Guide for Social Work’, p.19).
d.) Improving material circumstances
The impact of poverty reaches far beyond the presenting circumstances, if left unaddressed, poverty can impact upon long lasting outcomes for children and families. This includes impacting on self-esteem, self-worth and mental wellbeing. There is growing concern over children and families not having the very basics needed, as defined in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
e.) Case studies; best practice for working with poverty
The family contacted Yorkshire Ambulance Service for a suspected rat bite. Child A had abrasions, scratches, and broken skin. The case was referred to GRT Outreach and Inclusion for support. The family, consisting of Mum, Dad, and three children (ages 4, 2, and 5 months), are struggling financially, relying on weekly Child Benefit payments while their Universal Credit claim is pending. Dad is unemployed, and financial support from their family network is limited.
Their home has urgent repairs needed, including no working smoke alarms and a hole in the kitchen wall, which is the entry point for the rat infestation. The family is part of a community facing a scabies outbreak, with spots and rashes observed on all children.
The GRT worker and parents agreed on goals for a safe environment, financial stability, and support for the children's learning and development. The worker visited the family, helped them register with a GP, provided cleaning products, and created a plan for treating scabies. Referrals were made for new beds, food parcels, nursery applications, and essential provisions from the baby bank. The worker also supported urgent repairs on their rental property.
Improvements observed include a healthier lifestyle, better food options, support with finances and employment, improved sleep routines, and one child starting nursery. The family received support from various agencies, including Health, Zarach, Food and Baby Bank, DWP Job Shop, Children’s Centre, and Selective Licensing.